Have to agree with Muddy. Just because some of us self impose limits or standards on ourselves, doesn't mean we can force them on someone else. We all hunt for our own reasons(I hope). I have havested deer big and small, and each one means a special memory for me. If I get to the point where I'm looking down my nose at what someone else deems as a fun or successful hunt or feel like I'm in a competition, it's time to look for something else. Exception would be if that person was a guest on your property, where you have established certain rules or standards for what you would like to see harvested. If that is the case don't invite him to hunt with you on that property. But hunt with him on his place and share in his success, big or small. For me every success I get to share in is sweet.